Building a long lasting relationship can be a great challenge for some
couples. A long lasting, solid relationship is what everyone dreams of. But
some couples forget to put their relationship ahead of other things. Work,
family, finance and personal issues can get in the middle and break apart the
once strong bond. Use these tips to build a long lasting relationship full of
love and strength. I have experience about 3 years relationships with my partner. And it was so awesome for experiencing that type of relationship in my life. I hope after i have adding this tip into our relationship it will last forever. :))
Spend more time together with him/her. Make
time for each other whether it is going out with friends, attending a sporting
event, going to a social function or cuddling on the couch. We tend to forget
about spending time together when we fall into the hustle and bustle of life.
We have to learn to cut off from work when your work day ends and relax and
share time with our partner.
LAUGH
at yourself, at each other, at everybody else. This is
very important, do not take things personally. Tell him jokes that you
know he’ll laugh at, laughter is very infectious and let him fall in
love with your sense of humour again.EXPRESS YOUR LOVE
Tell
your partner how lucky you feel to have them in your life. Couples forget to
tell each other from time to time how truly important the other is to them.
Speak out and express your love when you can and tell them how much you care.
SPACE
Give
your partner space. Just as much as we need time together, we also need space.
Give your partner the space they need, when they need it. Sometimes we need
time to refresh our minds and if our partner respects this space, we can build
and strengthen our relationship.
START OVER
Some couples are able to do this and achieve a 'new' feeling again within their relationships. This feeling is achieved by forgiving and forgetting the past and the mistakes both of you have made. Wipe the slate clean and begin again with light flirtation.
BE FRIENDS
Remember how you treat your friends, if they forget to call you don’t get mad at them. If they are late to pick you up, you don’t jump down their throat so do the same for your partner. Hang out with him like you do with friends, so he doesn’t want to go shopping with you, but you can do things like go to funparks, minigolf, out for dinner, brunch, watching movie, picnic and many more.
LISTEN
without trying to solve problems or give advice. Ask your partner how their day was and listen objectively. Don’t tell them how to handle situations unless they ask for your advice.
TALK
Tell your partner how you are feeling, don’t expect that he knows you’ve had a bad day at work, he can’t guess that! Despite your belief that “he should just know”, he doesn’t. Let him know if something is bothering you, don’t play games.
UNDERSTAND AND FORGIVE THE LITTLE THING
Believe that you are both doing your best. If your partner’s best for the day is simply getting out of bed, then let them do their best and don’t hassle them. Understand that everyone has their down days, and if he forgets to take out the rubbish it’s not the end of the world.
THIS ONE IS SUITABLE FOR KEEPING YOUR NEW RELATIONSHIP STRONG!
# GOOD LUCK!
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